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Relationship qualities of those who live together

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This review attempts to integrate and conceptualize the many studies conducted on cohabital relationships during the past ten years. Evidence and possible causes for the apparent increase of cohabitation are presented. Since cohabitation relationships do not form a singular lifestyle, various functions and types of cohabitation are considered. Differences between couples who have and have not cohabited are looked at in regard to couples' choosing to cohabit, commitment, satisfaction, sex roles, sexual behavior, love and romanticism, problems and conflict, and persistence of the dyad.

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The writing of this paper was partially supported grant DA01070 from the U.S. Public Health Service and the San Fernando Valley Community Mental Health Centers, Inc. The production assistance of Julie Honig, Suong Luong, and Norma Chapman is gratefully acknowledged, and many thanks are extended to Kathleen Andrews.

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Newcomb, M.D. Relationship qualities of those who live together. J Fam Econ Iss 6, 78–102 (1983). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF01403980

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